思考的力量 — Team work

People are tempted to count on someone as a free guide naturally. It is similar in the team work.

Those with less contribution always rely on the others because of the judgment as a group base.  En.. that is right, but they should think about it, what the next?

Team work does not like a friendship, although team sources is most likely to build such friendship. But please don’t abuse it!

Friendship is totally different from team work spirit.

For a project of team work, the judgment is not how friendly you are, but how much you have contributed to the team. The most important principle is to contribute the team before the benefits. Remember that: help yourself before you ask for help! That is the attitude, not what the hell of abilities, skills, or anything else. You may do something wrong or worse, what best for you is to never give up and catch up with others. Not, in adverse, to say that I know nothing…… and can not do anything….

Be careful of your response, don’t you think you are still lucky for the next time? No next time anymore….. that is the world!

As a team leader, the personal motivation and interaction is a big challenge. You take the response for the result, so as your members! You should make a clear objective, roles and responsibility to everyone. Forget the friendship, blame and complaint is necessary for a good team atmosphere. Identify the problems with verified facts, make analysis and conduct a mutually agreement, and find the solution to fix it.

That is the world, there is no choice. It is painful, but worth it.

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Life – 裤头小了一圈

今天早上出门,不知少了那根神经,把牛仔裤的皮带扯掉了,中午吃饭的时候约摸着自己的裤头小了一圈。不由得暗爽一下,某某男历练多年,体重不上不下,稳中求进,也算是一小小成就;至少暂时打破肚腩男宿命了。

想起这条牛仔裤还是在08年的秋天买的,当时试穿时,可是废了九牛二虎之力,生拉硬拽撑上去的,心想老子就不信这个邪,其实对自己日渐增长的肚腩多少有些无奈之举。前段时间与友人吃饭,饭局间,某君老婆逼着老公减肥,这天上掉金砖还头一回,居然还有老婆逼老公就范。

罢鸟,罢鸟,要怪就怪君在印度吃太多汉堡包了。此君与我形容,原来一个普通Subway只能啃掉一半,去了一趟印度,现在能啃一个半。看来之前S君吓我米国的肥佬太多,看来都是KKC与麦当当惹得祸。

今早早起冲去游泳池,居然close,告知因为Lightning activities。我晕,大太阳天的还理直气壮告诉我lightning activities,看来会YY的还不止我一个啊。

淡定,淡定;昨日从C君学来一句口头禅:鸡蛋啊~~~

晕了~寻思哪天我也能对着砖头理直气壮的说一声:鸡蛋啊……嗯,那境界也就到了。

Life – 可爱的Roland Yap

可爱的roland yap教授,我们的OS fundation老师,也是我最痛苦,也最担心挂掉的一门。今天收到他的邮件,那种特有的风趣跃然纸上,我只能想到一句话能够形容他“一个脱离低级趣味的人…”

关于他,在课堂还发生了许多关于他的趣事,等我有空好好整理整理。下面是他发给我们的邮件:

“I hoped students have enjoyed the course. There is quite a bit of work but as they say: no pain, no gain. Do remember that the usefulness may manifest itself later rather than right now, though, it might still be handy for those doing QE to start thinking of system issues in a holistic way. The course page will probably go down sometime in mid May. You might also want to save the HD video which is quite nice. I forgot where I found it from.

PS. Best of luck for those doing exams.

Cheers, Roland ”

突然发现他与我大学时代的OS老师有一种天然的亲近,难道在这个领域探索的人都有某种特别的气质?No pain, no gain,心理欣慰了许多,很多我们目前觉得索然无味的东西,也许在不久的将来你将会发现他的奇妙之处。安静下来,沉淀的不止是你自己,还有那颗飘然跃动的心。

Roland用他最朴素的方法,激励着我们每一个人。

Best luck to my exams, cheers~~~

Life – 丢钱包的感觉真好

Dear Mr XX,

Please collect your lost wallet at the Loans Desk 4, Loans & Membership Services Dept……

Regards

Djohan

第一次丢钱包,居然在我收到管理员的邮件才发觉钱包落在了Toilet。问我里面有多少钱时我居然一点印象都没有,好在我的ID照片对得上眼,否则人家真的怀疑这钱包是不是我的。

现在除了啃砖头之外,貌似我对一切都不感冒了。脑袋缺了几根筋~是时候要出来活动活动了。

奇怪,丢了钱包反倒感觉良好,拿回钱包的那个moment,我要表现的兴奋一点么。嗯,决定今晚吃顿好的补偿一下~咔咔

飘过新加坡的日子–开篇

不经意翻起一封写给R君的邮件,里面如是说道:“当我们重新回到城市,我们又如蚕蛹般把自己包裹起来,撕掉旅行的标签,面对冷冰冰的水泥森林,一切的一切又全都恢复了原样…..”

R君说我很灰~ 其实我不过想表达一下那时那地的心情,被现实扇扇耳光,让我更加清醒自己追求的是什么。引用加菲的一句话:“什么生活都可以忍受,就是不能忍受一成不变的生活。”  L君说:每个人都有选择幸福生活的权利,这个权利,你一直都没有失去过…..还好,如蚁居者,尘埃中从来没有放弃过希望。

扯远了,今天不是因为看了加菲的blog,我也不会冒头想去YY新加坡的故事。

新加坡者,弹丸之地,凡到此一游者皆会感叹:一天转尽,有点boring。久居者,大都会再加上一句:boring至极。

我经常听新加坡人说的最多的一句福建方言:Kiashu,就是怕输。翻转地球看世界,由李家带出来的新加坡华人,白手起家,坚韧不拔地走到今天,不能不说是华人社会的一个奇迹。所以如果你要想用猎奇的眼光看待新加坡,就多少有些boring了。因为比摩天大厦,他比不过北京,上海;比气候,他没有春夏秋冬;比景色,他没有北边万里长城,西边的大漠,东边的小桥流水;甚至号称东南亚最棒的动物园,比起广州香江野生动花园也差了好远。

其实,一味比较是不会产生美的。如果你静下心来,仔细端详,你会发现新加坡许多动人之处。以此开篇,愿所有人都一个快乐的旅程~

2010,我在新加坡飘过~